The same sex marriage "debate" in Australia is doing for us what our indigenous and refugee policy has long been signalling worldwide. It makes us look like a bunch of flat earth fuqwits who lack compassion for anyone ever so slightly different from our Norm (remember him?). Ironic really for a colonised convict settlement that unceremoniously stole its land, decimated the world's oldest aboriginal nation and then was populated wholly by immigrants.The SSM plebiscite is non binding and costing the equivalent of years of infrastructure. It lacks any clout and can all too easily be relegated to the back cupboard in the corridors of power. The debate has devolved into arguments designed to panic and distract, that should not even rate a mention.